Pages that don't make sense.

I was on a Social Networking site the other day when I came across a group which was called "I would use my last breath to say I love you." At first I was thinking it was kind of sweet and cute but then being the complete and utter pessimist I am, I thought that realistically you wouldn't waste your last breath on saying something that someone already knows. If you loved them, they would already know that therefore you could spend you last breath saying something awesome like telling someone "They better not eat your cookie." Because then that person would forever be thinking hmm.. "I wonder what Cookie he was talking about.. OH MY GOSH I ATE IT?!" 

Unless you never told them you love them in the first place, in that case that would be cruel because if they loved you back they would live the rest of their lives knowing that you'd loved them all along and that they hadn't taken a chance and told you, therefore they would live the rest of their lives thinking "What if...?"

This then lead me to the conclusion that this page didn't actually make that much sense and therefore you should not use your last breath to tell someone you love them unless you really really really want to.

There was also another page that I thought was silly it was called "If You truly Love someone Like this Page." I mean seriously? If you "Truly loved" someone you would be out there telling them that not liking a stupid page on a social networking site.

Saying Goodbye

Have you ever had one of those really bad days when nothing seems to go as you planned and it just feels like everything is slowly crumbling away in your fingers?
Then  a couple of days later or maybe even the same day someone very close to your heart decides to move away or a relative passes away and you don't want to say Goodbye because you know it will tear you completely apart, maybe because you know you will never see them again or maybe its because you're so used to seeing them everyday.
I realised today that maybe sometimes these things happen for a reason and its usually for the best, whether its allowing someone to have a better future somewhere a little further than you'd like, or letting go of someone close to your heart because really its there time to dream in a faraway place. No matter how much you love that person, you have to let go because there is a point of no return and sometimes that point is a lot closer than you think, just smile and think about how lucky you are to have known that person and to be able to say the lovely memories that you share with them.

"A good-bye is never painful unless you’re never going to say hello again."

I found this quote and it inspired me, because it shows last goodbyes in a beautiful way. Unfortunately this quote speaks the truth in that a final goodbye is always the hardest, I don't wish to be morbid but this is something I've been thinking about a lot lately. So I would just like to tell you to stay strong and keep your chins up, because even after a rough couple of days you never know what's around the corner.

Hey

Hey, well basically I've decided that I want to blog through out my teenage life so I can look back when I'm an adult and remember then with perfect clarity. So starting from today I'm going to try and write a blog at every chance I can get, whether its from my phone or I'm sat typing away at a laptop. So this is my hello to the world of blogging. 

"All your quirks and all your problems, even your depressions and your failures, that’s what makes you, you." - Gerard Way

I adore this quote. To me it means that no matter what you are, you will always be yourself and that's all you're ever going to be, so love everything that makes up you whether they are things that aren't quite perfect or things that make you a little different. I think that in life it is important to do that, because nobody is perfect.